Sunday, January 31, 2016

The perils of so-called 'Spiritual Romance'

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Many are hungering after a spiritual partner, to Really start living their 'spiritual life'. 

Someone to 
- eat Vegetarian with, 
- partner with in daily Meditation, 
- practice Releasing ego and fear continually & consciously together
... whatever the pictures are.

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It is always tempting to WAIT 
for Something, Someone, Sometime... 
- outside of here, now, with, 
- outside of myself 
to BE/ DO my ideal concepts.

Of course the answer is: 
Start NOW.
 
We can do these things individually, 
with groups of friends, 
and in conscious connection with all our relations. 

Why wait? 
Vegetarianism, daily meditation, practicing releasing ego and fear continually, et al, 
- who can argue? let's GO!
; )

Trying to add 'romantic love' (really dependency on any other person) to the mix 
is a recipe for disaster.
It stops me from my path. 

AND 
Truth is: I need to have my act together when that Romance wave hits 
- it Really upsets the applecart, 
- and I Really need to know Who I am and What I want, 
or it is easy to be Swept Away....

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Tying one's Relationship 
to expectation or demand of some list of beliefs, ways-of-being, practices (from self and other) 
make always-changing relationships between always-growing people, even harder than they already are!

But, as a conscious practice choice of one individual, 
who is already vibrating more and more in this way, 
who desires to attract another in a love dance...
 
With someone who hopefully will at least sometimes / often? 
be in alignment with these practices, knowing sometimes they may not!!!
; ) 

This seems a more obtainable and healthy path, to me.

We attract the vibration we are, after all. 
SO being the practice, 
seems the most likely path to attract someone in alignment with the practice, seems to me...

After that, what is Absolutely Necessary for them to be/do?
For me, I Require nothing discussed above, of Them. 
What about you?

: ) W

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