Friday, December 28, 2012

The Healing Power of NO


My encouragement to a healer who can't say NO:

In my experience:

I learned NO, MINE, and BYE-BYE by the age of two 
- but I allowed myself to be socialized out of it.  

Yet, these are the energetic cornerstones of a well, whole, self-directed system: 
I must own these tools to be a well HEALER. 
Otherwise, soon I am a broken healer of no use to anyone, including myself 
... been there got the T-shirt! 

If I say NO, I make way for a bigger YES - for everyone involved. 
It helps me to TRUST Spirit, Self, Other, Life...

My compulsion to say Yes as a healer, 
tends to be a band-aid for my own experience of pain, brokenness and need, 
the 3 most likely suspects (some of the many HUGE temptations of a healer):

1) I want to focus on others healing instead of my own.

(But the secret is the more I face my self and allow myself to heal, 
the more I am a healing presence for others.)

2) I want them to love me and think I am great.

(But the secret is the more I am my real self, 
authentically shining and doing what is best for Me 
- the more I am authentically loved and appreciated by others... 
and they are inspired to live and love, and shine!)

3) I want to believe and/or I want them to believe I am SPECIAL: 
they Need ME - ha!

(But the secret is, their healing is between THEM and their bodies and Spirit... 
I am honored to assist when appropriate! 
They don't need Me, and it is beneficial for us both to keep that at the top of mind.)

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What is your experience?
Peace and Grace to you on your unique journey 
- Wendy
         

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